embracing the fullness of queer desire and wisdom

welcome to a space where sexuality meets soul, where intelligence meets instinct, and where healing begins with the courage to be seen.

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i’m dr. ethan haymovitz—queer freudian, sexologist, and psychotherapist. i work with individuals and couples across california, new york, and nationally to reclaim their erotic truth, rewrite painful scripts, and find love on their own terms.

this isn’t traditional therapy.

 

it’s a deep dive into the stories that shaped your body, your longings, and your silence. together, we bring those stories into the light—not to fix you, but to liberate you.

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i work across identities, but the thread is the same: love is the only tide that lifts all boats. whether you’re a straight woman learning to want again, a gay man craving real connection, or a neurodivergent client tired of contorting yourself to fit someone else's idea of normal—you’re welcome here. you are not too much. your desires are not too strange. your joy is not too late.

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let’s create space for the kind of intimacy that changes everything.